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Does NLP work?
Before I answer that, let me explain why every NLP intervention needs a “control”, and what science teaches us about measuring change… In science, nothing is taken at face value. If you want to know whether something works, you don’t just test it — you compare it. You measure it against a control. A control is the baseline, the “normal,” the standard set of conditions you already understand. Without it, an experiment becomes guesswork. You might get a result, but you have no idea whether that result is meaningful. And this principle applies far beyond laboratories and test tubes. It applies directly to NLP, personal change work, and the question people love to ask: “Does NLP actually work?” Let’s break this down. The Science Analogy: Why Controls Matter Imagine I’m testing a new polymer additive in asphalt in my business (MacRebur Limited). I want to know whether a new additive improves strength, flexibility, durability — whatever my goal is. So I create two samples: • Control asphalt — the standard mix that’s always used • Experimental asphalt — the same mix, but with my polymer additive included I test both to a set of criteria and standard. I compare the results. If the polymer works, my experimental asphalt should outperform the control. If I didn’t have the control asphalt, I’d have no idea whether the polymer made any difference at all. Maybe the asphalt was always that strong. Maybe it was always that weak. Without comparison, the experiment is pointless. NLP Works the Same Way… When we use NLP tools — anchoring, reframing, submodalities, timeline work, language patterns — we are essentially running an experiment on human experience. But here’s the key: You cannot measure change unless you know what the experience was before the intervention. This is why NLP questions often presuppose comparison: • “How do you feel differently now, compared to before?” • “What’s different?” • “What’s changed?” • “What’s shifted?” These questions aren’t fluffy. They’re the NLP version of a scientific control.
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Thank you Toby, I have many thoughts, but will share just one. In the example you give you are comparing an attendees experience within an intervention assessed within the training group. In psychology we know this is easy to do. Most good influencers can do this easily. I remember you giving an example. You said "can you put your arm above your head" This is a question, however many took it as a test, and put their arms above their head. One of many good reasons NLP is critiqued by psychologists is the changes you mention is not a stable and robust experiment, which is carried forward in time and replicated in the real world. This is why many people come back over and over again to NLP courses. They cannot sustain the changes which they have experienced in the workshop, and they need to come back to "level up". It is this dynamic which has encouraged some to regard NLP as a pyramid scheme. In psychology the real control is another paradigm which claims to be able to create the same shifts which you describe above, and have this measured over a period of time by trained psychologists, who have no vested interest in either paradigm, and in fact do not even know whether what they are measuring comes from one paradigm or the other. (Blind controls). This is like your McRebur example you have 2 compounds, which one is better? get trained assessors to test the materials in a blind control experiment, and you will get your answer. In the example you give, you only have one compound...NLP. And my PHD research question discovered nobody really knows even what NLP is on account of different trainers having their own versions. Even the co-founders train under different versions, emergent new code, design human engineering and dissociated state therapy, (Grinder, Bandler and Pucelik respectively). I will leave it at that, as you know I could go on. 🤣
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Thank you @Toby McCartney I think you get my point when you say "we". What you mean by "we" (I think), is NLP practitioners. The rest of your paragraph, is the framing of an NLP practitioner contemplating how to work with someone who is depressed. So as he / she contemplates that, they will come up with some way of getting their client to own "not the problem". This is the NLP way. A Freudian would have another way of dealing with depression, a CBT person another way, a Behaviourist another way. In science what we have is a process for comparing the different modalities and seeing which one is more successful. If after putting say 100 depressed people through the NLP process, 100 depressed people through the Freudian process, 100 depressed people through the Behaviourist process and 100 depressed people through the CBT process we find, when qualified assessors, (who do not know which client comes from which group), discover NLP has an 80% success rate CBT has a 50% success rate, Behaviourism has a 40% success rate and Freudian approach has 30%, this does not prove NLP is better than the others, but it provides scientific corroboration of that. I think the main difficulty with NLP is even though people say it does work, because NLP people have not subjected their claims to such scrutiny, it has this pejorative label of being pseudo-science. Unfortunately we have no such scientific research of sufficient quality to be able to say this. The way I get around this is I say NLP never has been scientific, and therefore it can't be a pseudo-science. It only becomes a pseudo-science if people attempt to associate NLP with science for marketing purposes, without doing the science. Thank you for the opportunity to share my thoughts on a topic I know we are both passionate about.
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