I agree with your statement. Also, I think our community even our church family has clicks, if you are not a part of them, it hard to break in. At least in my experience. Our lives are built separated into compartments. We live our lives separately with structured cross over, church (specific times) wed night, and maybe one extra group. 80% of our time is isolated. The early church depended on each other just to survive, we do not have that need. Which in some ways hinders our spiritual growth.