I’m a bigger girl, and I’ve had a complicated relationship with my weight and what I wear for a long time. But the healing work I’ve been doing is helping me feel closer to myself than I ever have. Yesterday, I was dancing in a tank top, looking at my reflection, and felt the urge to lift it into a crop top. I did...and it felt amazing. I was excited to go out with my friends and my boyfriend dressed that way. But before he even knew that’s what I wanted, I put a tee shirt on over it. He had put on dress pants, which felt funny because lately I’ve often been the one dressing up in a dress. We joked about the irony, and I showed him the tank top underneath. I said, “Well, this is how I really want to go.” He laughed and said people might make fun of me. I laughed too and wondered out loud what they might say. Later, we talked more seriously. He said he’d feel the need to step in if someone was rude, and asked me to consider how that might affect him too. I heard him...and I also noticed that I’d covered up before he even knew I was considering going out that way. I’d felt good in what I was wearing, then changed before anyone else had a chance to react. I’m still sitting with that. Was I protecting myself? Avoiding someone else’s discomfort? And how do I make room for my own choice without turning it into a reaction? One thing I know: I want to buy a bunch of crop tops now, even though the weather is about to get cold. 😂 That may be the rebel in me talking...but I also love the feeling of not hiding. Maybe I’ll wear one tomorrow. Maybe I’ll take my time. Either way, I want the choice to come from being connected to myself. Where do you notice yourself wanting to express more of who you are...and what helps you tell the difference between a choice that feels true and a reaction to pressure?

Prepare enough to begin, then let reality complete the training..

History is not the past. It is the present. We carry our history with us.

today, we start the 3 day Magnetic YOU Challenge! It’s day 1! I’ll be LIVE in 1 hour at 10am PT are you ready to identify your primary pattern and how it has been playing out in love, work and family? here’s the zoom link to join: https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_Pxe9LSNAQ7-3ePC50XHdmw and if you want to get reminders for the calls sent to you (and invite a friend too!) check it out here: https://themagneticchallenge.com/main I’ll see you there! Aaron

Real growth is quiet… but it’s disruptive, chaotic, stressful, great toil, sweat, blood and tears. When you stop leading from emotion and start leading from self-trust, some people feel the shift—and don’t know what to do with it. Not everyone misses you. Some miss the version they could predict, that you once presented. The one who over-explained. Over-gave. Over-adapted. Healing doesn’t make you louder. It makes you clear. And clarity changes the room. Sometimes growth doesn’t look like confidence. It looks like clarity. Clarity directs you on the path that you need to go and action gets you there. The intuition never lies. Act now. It looks like fewer explanations. Stronger boundaries. Quieter decisions. I’m not becoming harder. I’m becoming more honest. No bitterness.No announcement. Just a steady walk forward.