Simple approach formula 1. Notice a natural opportunity 2. Approach when she’s waiting, walking between classes, at the cafeteria, library, or after an event—not when she’s clearly busy or rushing. 3. Use a situational opener 4. Instead of a random pickup line, comment on something happening around you: - “Hey, are you in this class too?” - “I’ve seen you around here a few times, what department are you from?” - “Quick question, is this seat taken?” - Introduce yourself After a few seconds of conversation: “By the way, I’m ___.” - Build a short conversation Ask about her course, college activities, interests, or something relevant to the situation. Don't turn it into an interview—share things about yourself too. - Look for reciprocity If she’s smiling, asking you questions, maintaining the conversation, or staying engaged, continue. If she's giving short answers, avoiding eye contact, or trying to leave, politely exit. - Move things forward If the interaction is going well: “You seem cool. Let's grab coffee sometime. What's your Instagram?”