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The Visible Death Worker

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🐦‍⬛ Visible Friday #15: Walking the Walk
This week's prompt isn't about your clients. It's about you. What's sitting in your own death admin pile? Maybe it's the will you've been meaning to update. The Advance Care Directive that's still only half finished. The conversation you've been meaning to have with your family. The funeral wishes you've helped other people think about… but haven't quite written down for yourself. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. How constantly looking “out there” for ideas can become an endless hustle - when actually if we pause and find the time to harvest from what we already have done (or haven’t done) - it can be a treasure trove of ideas that demands less from us energetically. e.g. I recently recorded a podcast episode for ‘Play This At My Funeral’ & the conversation resulted in me talking through planning my own funeral ceremony, moment by moment, song by song - and it gifted me a new perspective, an embodied perspective - of how I truly want my funeral to feel for the people I leave behind. This dovetailed effortlessly into an existing content pillar for me around helping people approach funerals not a formality they have to get through, but a creative act of love they get to create. One last generous gesture. (Here's the short clip I've chosen to share on socials.) That shift, from funeral as "burden" to funeral as "gift", has opened up a whole new way for me to talk about this work. And I only truly arrived there because I did my own admin first. Harvested from within from my own wants and wishes. And that's just funerals. As we know, there's so much more across the entire end of life / death / dying / ceremony / grief / remembrance spectrum. The Dead Good sisters - @Katy Vigurs + @Lindsey Vigurs - put this into practice beautifully in a reel recently - really naming all that they want for their moments following death. It’s poignant and visceral and beautiful - (as is everything they do!) It's on Instagram here.
🐦‍⬛ Visible Friday #15: Walking the Walk
1 like • 17d
Mine is still all a to-do list and does play on my mind - so important but have been struggling to start. Somehow feels easier to talk to others about their plans rather than do my own...but this post might be the nudge I need to start "I want my funeral to be the most extraordinary gift of love". That's a new way into the process, thank you
Visible Friday #3 - Vizzie D Family Meeting!
🐦‍⬛ VISIBLE FRIDAY #3 IS HERE 🐦‍⬛ Team huddle time, gorgeous ones. Grab a cuppa and come hang with me for 13 minutes. This week I've recorded our Visible Friday video via YouTube so auto-captions are available for anyone who needs them. :) Inside this week's family meeting: 🐦‍⬛ A few questions answered (you've been asking good ones) 🐦‍⬛ A very special limited-time offer - just for the legends who've been here from the start. It closes end of May so now's the time to tell a mate. 🐦‍⬛ This week's Visibility Prompt - all about idea generation and what to do when you've completely run out of steam. (We've all been there. I've got you.) Go hit play. See you in the comments. x
1 like • May 23
Love all of this Amy, thank you x
Social Media: Let’s all find each other out there 🐦‍⬛
Death care content can feel like shouting into the void sometimes - especially in the early days, especially on platforms that don’t always love what we talk about. So let’s make it a little less lonely… Drop your handles below - Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, wherever you’re showing up - and let’s go find each other. Follow, engage, share what moves you. This is how we build something together. 🐦‍⬛ I’ll go first: Insta - https://www.instagram.com/amyfirthministry TT - https://www.tiktok.com/@aussiedeathcarelady Facebook - www.facebook.com/amyfirthmusic The Visible Death Worker: https://www.instagram.com/visibledeathworker https://www.tiktok.com/@visibledeathworker Amy x
Social Media: Let’s all find each other out there 🐦‍⬛
6 likes • Apr 26
Ah, love this Amy. Look forward to connecting with this lovely community. You can find me at: https://www.instagram.com/holisticgriefcoach https://www.facebook.com/holisticgriefcoach https://www.tiktok.com/@holisticgriefcoach
🌻 Introduce Yourself...
It's so wonderful to see you all start to arrive - I feel like the excited/nervous party host who's spent way too long decorating and tidying... now it's time to exhale and receive the joy of you each arriving... :) Feel free to share a quick intro in the comments below... perhaps: where you're based, what you do & one main struggle you have with promoting your work/services... GO! x
🌻 Introduce Yourself...
11 likes • Apr 22
Hey, it's so lovely to be here. I'm Kate, an academic and a product designer turned holistic grief coach. I'm based in North London and offer grief support locally and online. I am passionate about opening up conversations around death and grief in my local area. I host a monthly grief cafe and in the next few weeks I will be installing a windphone in the grounds of Enfield Crematorium. My passion is to bring creative approaches into grief support. This feels like a space that is so needed - thank you Amy. My challenges at present are around generally growing the profile and visibility of the business, and using social media in a way that feels authentic and 'appropriate'. I look forward to connecting with this amazing community.
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Kate Kruger
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@kate-kruger-9515
Holistic Grief Coach | Educator & Creative

Active 13d ago
Joined Apr 22, 2026
Enfield, North London. UK
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