I know this is going to look different for everyone, but what is reasonable communication with the kids when they are with the other parent? My kids dad wants 24/7 FaceTime access when the kids are with me but strictly limits my communication when they are with him. He also bought them a cell phone he keeps away from them when they are with him but demands they carry it when with me. We have conference then court coming up so I am trying to get clear on what to ask the judge for regarding these agreements or orders if needed:.

Hey everyone. I am in the thick of it with my divorce. My kids and I are still in our house, but we have to get it read to sell. I am really struggling with the loss of our home. My kids have grown up there, and we are all terribly sad to leave. I wish we could stay until they finish high school. Has anyone been able to stay? We have meetings soon to work with a mediator, but my husband is really set on selling.

We are headed for trial next week. Settlement conference made little progress… so overwhelmed running numbers and outcome scenarios in my head. Can’t wait until it’s over!!

For those of you who are doing your work, here is a journal prompt for this week. I recommend audio or written journals for EVERYONE! I personally use an audio journal now, but I occasionally write out the deeper things. I love using written journaling alongside my parts work. It allows me to go deeper. The prompt for this week is: When was the last time you remember feeling like yourself? Really yourself.

Posting tonight's session recap here and in the Classroom folder for the Narcissistic Support Group