I don't say this about every week — but this one's foundational. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗹𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘂𝘀 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗸𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗹𝗰𝗼𝗵𝗼𝗹 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗼𝗹𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁. Reward. Bonding. Love. Relief. And until you can actually see your specific link, change feels like a fight against yourself. Once you see it, it stops being a fight. This week I tell you exactly where mine started — my dad's print shop, a small-town bar, potato skins, and a glass of wine I was too young to legally have. It's the story I come back to more than any other, because once I actually saw it clearly, everything else got easier. It's LIVE now (found in the Classroom tab above) > The Afterglow > "Break the Link" The video, the full write-up, the actual research on why this works, and a quick tool to help you name your own link. If you only do one thing in this community this month — I'd do this one. Then come back here and share which link is / was strongest for you?

"Why can't I just STOP - Why can't I just have one?!" Unsure where you're at with the Challenge. Most people didn't start right way (that's OK). WEEK 2 isn't / wasn't about gripping harder — it's about understanding why you reach. Hop back into the Challenge and let that momentum BUILD. Give yourself the satisfaction of following through to the end. Tell me: What's one trigger (might be disguised as a part of your "daily routine") you see more clearly now than you did 7 days ago? 🚨

This is the worksheet from Day 2 in my 30-day Thirsty for More signature course. It's one of the main foundational pieces of the puzzle. 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗩𝗮𝗹𝘂𝗲𝘀: these change over time and it's wildly beneficial to review at least once a year. Be sure and choose values that are important to you - NOT based on what other think or what you SHOULD choose. For example - at this point in my life (considering my personal situation, relationship status, career status, etc.) - my top 3 values are: - Security (financial & personal) - Growth - Impact 𝘕𝘰𝘸 - 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘮𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘓𝘰𝘷𝘦 & 𝘍𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 🤔 ?? - 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘦, 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘭𝘶𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺 & 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘵𝘩. It's how YOU interpret your top values - without feeling the need to over-explain to anyone else.😉 🌟 The PRIMARY benefit of identifying your core values is that THEY become your north star for all other decisions you make & potential actions you take. I'd love it if you'd share yours - it might inspire someone else. 🤩 There's also a powerful journal prompt that will start to show you how to connect to dots...."how did I get to this point..."

One week in. And I have to say something to every single one of you who got here first. 💋 Retired Party Girls has officially been live for one full week! One week ago (OK several years ago), this was just an idea, a red lipstick, and a belief that women like us deserved something better than shame and folding chairs. And you — you didn't wait to see if it would work. You walked in anyway. Before there was a crowd. Before there was proof. When it was just me and a hunch. Free or premium, if you're here this early, you're the Founding Class. The originals. The ones who were here at the very beginning. And there will only ever be one founding class. That's you. Here's what that means for all of you: 💋 My genuine gratitude — and my attention. This is small enough right now that I actually see you. 🥂 A founding-class energy you can't manufacture later — you're building this room with me, in real time. ✨ Whatever this becomes — a hundred women, a thousand — you were here first, and I won't forget it. 🎯And then there's the deep end. For our 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗠𝗜𝗨𝗠 𝗳𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀, this is where it really opens up: 🔥 The Happy Hour Pathway — your 7-step journey into who you're becoming. The challenge meets you at the glass; the Pathway is where you go past it — the identity work, the real reinvention, one deep month at a time. This is the spine of everything. 🥂 An intimate founding-members Zoom — just us, face to face. The originals in one room. We'll talk about what's landing, where this is going, and I get to actually meet you. 💋 Me, closer. Smaller room, deeper work, more of my attention on you and where you're headed. And if you're not premium yet? That door's open whenever you're ready — no rush, no pressure. The challenge alone will change things. But when you want to go deeper, the Pathway's waiting. 🚪 But make no mistake: every one of you who's here right now is a founder. Get comfy, dive into the challenge, and know you're part of something at the exact moment it started. The afterparty's just getting going. 🪩 — Marjorie

This week's FULL content drop is in the classroom >> "This is what clarity does to my Brain" Let me cut right to it: Isolation carries a health risk on par with smoking 15 cigarettes a day. That's not me being dramatic — that's the U.S. Surgeon General. And in recovery research specifically, real connection is one of the strongest predictors of who stays sober long-term. Gut check — which one's closest to true for you this week?