Have you ever spoken about a family event with a brother, sister or friend and wondered whether you were even at the same place? 😂 You remember exactly what was said. They are equally convinced it happened differently. There is something important in that. We don’t experience life like cameras recording every detail exactly as it happened. We experience, interpret and attach meaning to what happens. That means a difficult memory may contain more than the facts of the event. It can also carry the fear, disappointment, rejection or meaning we connected to it at the time. And sometimes, years later, we are still living from the meaning we gave something during one difficult season. Perhaps somebody rejected you and somewhere inside you concluded, I’m not wanted. Perhaps something failed and the conclusion became, I’m not capable. Perhaps somebody left and you decided, People I love eventually leave. The event was real. But does the conclusion you drew from it still deserve to direct your life today? This is where faith gives us such hope. God can meet us not only in what happened, but also in what we came to believe because of what happened. “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” — John 8:32 There is a practical know-how to examining the thoughts and memories we have built without becoming trapped in them. That’s part of Winning the Battle in Your Mind. POLL: Have you ever discovered that someone remembers the same event very differently from you? A — Absolutely B — Yes, especially family! C — Occasionally D — Never really thought about it