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There’s been a lot of talk lately about the decline in participation here, so I figured I’d throw my two cents in. For me, I comment when I actually have something to add. If I own the fragrance, have sampled it, smelled it at a counter, know the house, or I’m interested in trying it, I’ll usually jump in. I like comparisons, first impressions, SOTDs with some substance, unpopular opinions, performance talk, clones versus originals, new releases, and anything that can actually turn into a conversation. But I also think the lack of engagement goes a little deeper than the posts themselves. I think people have become too sensitive to criticism and disagreement. A respectful difference of opinion is not disrespect. We are not all going to smell the same thing, like the same thing, or agree on what is better. That is actually where a lot of the learning comes from. I also think some good brothers have left because disagreements turned into resentment instead of just being disagreements. That is unfortunate. You should be able to tell me you completely disagree with my take on a fragrance, explain why, and we both move on. Maybe I even learn something from you. There is also a little selfishness with engagement. Some people want everybody commenting on their posts, but you rarely see them interacting with anyone else’s. If everybody only participates when they are the one posting, then eventually there is no real community. I have also heard people blame the AI bot for some of the decline. I think that is kind of ridiculous. I understand why people do not like the regurgitating and automatic bot engagement. I am actually not a fan of that part myself. But one comment from a bot does not prevent experienced brothers or newcomers from adding their own thoughts. If ten guys want to have a real conversation underneath it, the bot did not stop that. The human engagement is still up to us. Then I hear about the paid portion of the platform. I have not seen anybody kicked out of the Brotherhood because they did not participate in the paid side.

The deeper I’ve gotten into perfumery, the less importance I put on a published note list. And owning and smelling a lot of originals and clones really drove that home for me. Take Creed Aventus and Armaf Club de Nuit Intense Man. You can put their note lists next to each other and see a lot of the same ideas—citrus, pineapple, blackcurrant, birch, woods, musk, amber. Now take Louis Vuitton Imagination and Zara Sunrise on the Red Sand Dunes. Again, you’re dealing with that same general citrus, ginger, amber, clean and fresh territory. But here’s my point: A note list isn’t a formula. You can duplicate every note somebody publishes and still not duplicate the fragrance. “Pineapple” isn’t necessarily pineapple oil sitting in a bottle somewhere. “Leather” doesn’t mean somebody squeezed a leather jacket into the formula. A lot of what we call notes are accords or simply the perfumer’s interpretation of an aroma. Give two perfumers the same list—bergamot, pineapple, birch, woods and musk—and you can end up with two completely different fragrances. The materials matter. The aroma chemicals matter. The quality matters. The proportions matter. The construction matters. And most importantly, the perfumer’s interpretation matters. This is one reason I think people get too caught up in Fragrantica note pyramids. Most of us can’t smell a fragrance blind and accurately identify 12 or 15 individual notes anyway. We smell the overall composition. We might say it’s citrusy. Woody. Smoky. Sweet. Green. Spicy. Creamy. Fresh. Then we look at the note breakdown and suddenly we’re smelling Sicilian bergamot harvested on a Tuesday morning. 😂 Come on. I’ve owned hundreds of clones, and that’s actually taught me to pay less attention to whether the clone copied the published notes and more attention to whether it captured the actual fragrance. Because that’s what a clone is really trying to reproduce. Not the note list. The smell. And even when a clone gets extremely close, it’s still an interpretation of somebody else’s composition. Maybe the opening is sharper. Maybe the woods are rougher. Maybe the original transitions better. Maybe the clone projects more. Maybe one ingredient is emphasized differently.

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So, I had some luck last year with a shower oil, but there was one significant issue - it had a distinct scent of its own. For working from home days, this wasn't a big deal, and I did like the convenience of applying the oil to my body at the end of my shower, letting it sit for a couple of minutes, and then rinsing off the excess. I noticed little difference in my chest, arms, and elbows between this and applying traditional moisturizer after showering. However, because of the scent of the shower oil, I ended up abandoning it after that first supply ran out and going back to the traditional routine. Of course, this also meant that certain parts of my body were getting as much moisturization as they could, since applying lotion is a more tedious process. A few days ago, though, I started a new moisturizing routine... I ordered some organic, fractionated coconut oil off of Amazon to try out as a shower oil. As it turns out, it seems to work just as well as that 'proprietary' shower oil blend - as a full-body moisturizer. However, people weren't kidding about the fragrance benefits. I've noticed a significant improvement in both longevity and projection over the last few days. I'm still, of course, applying an extra layer of face moisturizer to my face as well as body moisturizer with SPF to my head and neck after I shower, but I no longer have to take 15-20 minutes once a week (being generous with how often I actually did it) to apply body moisturizer to my entire body. Instead, I take an extra ≈3 minutes at the end of my shower to apply the fractionated coconut oil and the end result is both improved moisturization for my whole body plus increased fragrance performance. What about you guys? Do you use fractionated coconut oil as a moisturizer, or elsewhere in your fragrance routine?