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Kathy L Murphy's Big Book Love

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40 contributions to Kathy L Murphy's Big Book Love
Conflicts and Resolutions
Last April 20, I watched the screening of the film-documentary "Return to Sölöz" by Serge Avedikian, an Armenian-born French producer, director, and actor. It explores the themes of identity, memory, heritage, historical truth, and reconciliation during his four visits spanning more than 30 years (1987–2019) in a Turkish village of Sölöz, the home of his Armenian grandparents. "Return to Sölöz" combines personal reflection, village life, archival footage, and conversations with local residents of Armenian, Greek, and Bosnian ancestry who have forgotten their roots, or who prefer not to remember them. It begins in Paris and moves on to Istanbul, revisiting the 2007 assassination of the Turkish-Armenian intellectual and journalist Hrant Dink, who’s critical of those who deny the Armenian Genocide. Then, the scenes follow one sentimental event after another, e.g. a large number of Armenian graves found in the village and the museum project initiated by a local resident, which was blocked by local authorities, who denied the existence of cultural minorities since the days of the Ottoman Empire. Reconciliation helps individuals and societies move from endless pain, i.e. toward some form of peace, even if that peace includes remembering, grieving, and setting firm boundaries. Reconciliation, even for everyday conflict, isn’t instant. It’s a process, and it’s okay if it’s slow or uneven. Serge answered our questions with sincerity, humility, and hope. Before leaving the theatre, I found myself wondering whether I could reconcile with people who have caused me pain. It’s easy to nod when you’ve never been the direct target of abuse or cruelty. It’s a different story when the suffering reaches the people you love and stretches over many years rather than short moments. In that situation, reconciliation becomes complicated, and the only realistic path forward is learning how to live with the truth of what happened without allowing it to consume or destroy you. For instance, spending years under a manipulative manager who publicly undermined you, took credit for your work, or slowly damaged your confidence and career growth impacts a lifetime. Even after leaving the job, you could have self-doubt, burnout, or difficulty trusting future colleagues.
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Thanks, Kathy. I sent you and Paul copies by post a while ago. I’m on holiday in Rome, and the sweltering heat is eating my energy. Cheers
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Y’all know how I love doing Podcasts. Well, here’s a scammer who got my hopes up. Curse them!!!
Podcast scam
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I got a similar one a while ago.
Reminder: August Book Club Meeting starts in 1 Hr
Hi guys, just wanted to remind everyone we are having our meeting at 2:00 pm central this month. Here is the link to join - https://www.skool.com/live/gkFfQDnlYbS Hope to see you guys there!
Reminder: August Book Club Meeting starts in 1 Hr
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Hi Paul, is this 2 PM Central European Time? I got your message an hour ago (Reminder: August Book Club Meeting starts in 1 H), so I thought the book club meeting is at 9 PM Paris Time.
UK Book Club Meeting Inquiry for August 23rd 2026
Hello Authors in the UK and surrounding countries... We are thinking about doing a second book club meeting next Sunday but we need to get some feedback. In order to have the book club meeting that would happen around 10:00 central time or 4:00 pm (I believe) in the UK, we need to know who all plan on being there. Kathy and I would have to make some arrangements to make that time work as we would also have a book club meeting at 2:00 pm. We would like for at least 10 authors in the UK to let us know that they will most definitely be there in order for us to go ahead and make those arrangements. Please comment below if you know you can make it on Sunday 23rd 2026 at 4:00 pm UK time or 10:00 Am Central time.
UK Book Club Meeting Inquiry for August 23rd 2026
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I'm not in the UK, but I'll attend. France is only an hour ahead of England; I write in English, and my son has been living and working in England for over a decade -- do these count? 😃
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I'm not in the UK, but I'll attend. France is one hour ahead of England; I write in English, and my son has been living and working in London for over a decade -- do these count 😃?
Kenya: A Guide For The First-Time Visitor
My book has been chosen by Halcyon Books as their pick of the month. https://halcyonliterary.com/
Kenya: A Guide For The First-Time Visitor
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Hats off, Jim.
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Hats off, Jim.
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Rolade Berthier
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Dr. Rolade Berthier lives in France and works in Luxembourg. She has lived and worked in Asia, Australia, and Europe. www.roladesocietalblog.com.

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