Hey Kimberly thanks for responding it’s not that she is not affectionate it’s that it’s hot and cold when she is with me she is in my skin so to say but when she is away she is a different person if we argue I feel like I’m being punished for speaking up but if she has something to say I’m supposed to take it and forget like it ever happened and it confuses me she assumes responsibility if it convenient for her when I express a need it’s hard for her to show up when I bring it up she see it as I criticizing how she loves me I have always thought and correct if I’m wrong one should teach a person how to love them just because one is ok not receiving something doesn’t mean the other ones needs don’t exist I hope this makes sense