The replay has closed. What I taught on Tuesday did not change. Own the Response. Examine the Wound. Filter Through the Right Lens. Change the Pattern. Those are the four. Each one has a tool, and the tools live inside The Relationship Plug. The door is still open. The Relationship Plug is free for 7 days, $47 a month after that, cancel anytime. Start your 7 free days here: https://www.skool.com/therelationplug Which of the four are you struggling with most?

You are not struggling to love correctly, but there are areas that you are struggling in and I’m about to break it down so get ready and beat me there. Don’t meet me there.

Tonight. 8:00 PM ET. Right here. Here's the door: https://www.skool.com/relationship-experience-3646/calendar?eid=d04b421f1d914c0eb4f23c1d8247ae8c Want the reminder emails too? Save your seat here and I'll send them: https://notyouraverageminister.netlify.app/ Come a couple minutes early. If you can only stay for the first twelve minutes, still come. One question at the end. The replay's up for 72 hours if you can't make it live, but I'd rather have you in the room. Bless y'all. See you at 8. Vincent

It's been a minute since I went live in this room. That changes Tuesday, September 29. 8:00 PM ET. Free. Right here in Holding Back. The training is called You're Not Struggling to Love Correctly. Let's tell the truth about it. Whatever's breaking down between you and your person… it is very likely not a love problem. You've known that for a while. What nobody told you is what the problem actually is. It's four things getting in the way of the love. Each one has a name. Each one has a tool. I'm naming all four that night and handing you the tool for each one. Own the Response. Examine the Wound. Filter Through the Right Lens. Change the Pattern. Not a mood. Not a mindset. Not "be more patient." A skill. And at the very end, one question. Just one. It tells you which pattern is actually yours. Not his. Not hers. Yours. Here's the event. Tap "add to calendar" so you don't have to remember anything: https://www.skool.com/relationship-experience-3646/calendar?eid=d04b421f1d914c0eb4f23c1d8247ae8c One thing before then. Drop it in the comments, one sentence… the argument you and your person keep having. Not the details. Just what it's about. I read what y'all send me before I go live. The replay stays up for 72 hours after, then it comes down. Come on, somebody. See y'all on the 29th. Vincent

Tomorrow night. 8:00 PM ET. Live, right here in Holding Back. Here's the event: https://www.skool.com/relationship-experience-3646/calendar?eid=d04b421f1d914c0eb4f23c1d8247ae8c Want the reminder emails too? Save your seat here and I'll send them: https://notyouraverageminister.netlify.app/ Let me tell you something I see so often in mediation. The fight is about something small. The way he said it. The thing she forgot. A few minutes in, both people are flooded, and neither one could tell you what started it. The sentence didn't do that. Something the sentence touched did that. That's what tomorrow is about. Hearing the wound instead of the words, in real time, before the damage. Four things, by name, and a tool for each one. Clear the hour. Bring a pen. If you dropped your sentence in the comments last week, bring that too. See y'all tomorrow. Vincent