Hey everyone, just wanted to alert you to a new "secret" project I've been working on for the last little while. Before I tell you about it, I have to go back to a few years ago, when I decided I needed to work on my mindset. You see, I've been in business for years, and I've seen a measure of success, but I always seem to hit a ceiling and get stuck there. So, I joined the Mindvalley app and started taking courses on how to remove abundance blocks and manifestation. These courses were helpful, but I found I needed to develop additional tools to help me stay accountable. As a writer, it helps me to write stuff down. Out of that practice came tools like my 30-day Gratitude Journal, and other things like goal trackers. These tools are now being curated as digital resources available through my new Etsy store, Elevated Mind by Julie. Here's the link: https://www.etsy.com/shop/ElevatedMindByJulie?ref=dashboard-header Right now, only the digital downloads are on the site, but physical products including my Gratitude Journal are coming soon. I'm sharing it here, because part of emotional mastery is about shifting away from what I call, a "muddled mindset" - prosperity, relationship, and healing blocks that keep us from achieving our full potential in life, relationships, and career. So, if you have a minute, skip on over to https://www.etsy.com/shop/ElevatedMindByJulie?ref=dashboard-header and check out the resources there. I particularly like the Time Spillover Journal and the Gratitude Tracker. What's your favourite item? What kind of resource would help you work through your particular challenge on paper? Let me know in the comments!

Here's the thing. Anytime I start to ramp up talk about emotional mastery, people and circumstances crawl out of the woodwork to hit me right where I live. Last week Monday started like that. One voice message. One angry human. A few well-placed barbs. And that was all it took for my nervous system to go from zero to 100 in about ten seconds or less. A few deep breaths prefaced my response, but in retrospect a few hours along with some deep breaths would have served me better. All in all, it took some talk therapy (thanks to my husband and a dear friend for that), a walk and some breathwork to reset my nervous system, and some very serious self talk to get my mindset reset for an afternoon of working with clients. Sometimes clients are shocked to learn that I sometimes wonder where I can find a good hit man, or that once every so often I thinking about punching someone in the face. That shouldn't be a surprise. The truth is that Emotional Mastery is not about anger management or pretending like everything is fine when it isn't. It is about regulating your nervous system and your emotions so that you can navigate things when they are chaotic and upsetting. It's about keeping your problem solving brain engaged so that you don't make matters worse by acting impulsively. It's about being REAL in the moment and still making good decisions despite how you feel. Remember that the next time life decides to sucker punch you right in the gut. It's okay to be mad about it AND you can still make good choices that will effect favourable outcomes. Can anybody relate to that experience? Share your stories in the comments!

What if your anxiety isn't just about what's happening... but how you're breathing? 😮‍💨 Most of us breathe on autopilot—and when we're stressed, our breathing often becomes fast, shallow, and trapped in the upper chest. That sends a message to your brain that you're still under threat, keeping your nervous system on high alert. Try this instead: 🌬️ Take a slow, deep inhale and fill your lungs completely. ⏸️ Hold your breath for a moment and notice the tension. 💨 Release it slowly, as though you're blowing through a straw. Here's the secret: the longer your exhale, the stronger the signal to your nervous system that you're safe. That's when your body begins to relax, your mind starts to settle, and clear thinking returns. It only takes a minute—but done consistently, it can change the way you respond to stress. ✨ Ready to learn more practical tools for emotional mastery? Join my FREE 5-Day Emotional Mastery Challenge and start building the skills to regulate your emotions instead of being ruled by them. 🔗 https://www.skool.com/anger-solutions-blueprint-6496/classroom #EmotionalMastery #AnxietyRelief #NervousSystemRegulation #Breathwork #StressRelief #MentalWellness #EmotionalHealth #MindsetMatters #TheRiseOfRage #AngerSolutions

Hey community, have you ever felt so emotionally overwhelmed that you just wanted to throw your hands up and let your feelings fly? I mean, in all their raw, unfiltered form? I have had a few moments like this over the last few weeks, and I'll be honest - there have been times that I have wanted to just let it all out and not in a pretty way. Here's what I've done instead. 1. I wrote myself a song, which I listen to every morning and every night, and even throughout the day when I need it. It keeps me in a positive mindset, and it reminds me that everything is working out for my good, even when I can't see the evidence of that. 2. I have put myself in nature. If I don't have time for a hike, I get outside and walk through my yard barefoot. That grounding energy helps my nervous system to reset itself and keeps me level headed. When hikes are an option, out into the woods I go. The beach is also a terrific choice - feet toes first in the sand, being near the water - these are natural ways to reset and balance the nervous system. 3. I talk to someone who will listen without judgement. Having a non-invested third party who will hear me out and let me unpack things without telling me what to do is a true gift. If you have someone like that in your life, consider yourself blessed. If you don't, guess what - you do! This community is here for you - I am here for you. If you need a 1:1 or you need the feedback of this community, reach out and we will be here for you without judgement or expectation. 4. I journal. When the problem wants to do nothing but roll around in my head and make me anxious, I reach for my trusty notebook and I write down all the things. The facts of the issue. How I feel about it. How I want it to turn out, and what I can do about it. I go through the pros and cons of each option and then I make a decision and act on it. (This is TSA in action). Once I move to problem solving, I feel better - the big feelings resolve themselves. I hope this is helpful for you - this is what emotional mastery looks like in the every day. If you haven't started yet, I encourage you to begin the Five Day Emotional Mastery Challenge in the Classroom section of the Anger Solutions Blueprint Community and see how it helps you move into a space of daily practice and compounded results.

Hey community I'm taking some much needed downtime for the next few days. A little hiking, a little outdoors, and hopefully lots of good food and sleep. I encourage you to set aside time to rest as well. When I get back, I'll have some new Q&As set up in the calendar, and other opportunities for you to connect! See you soon!