The end of the year is almost here. Think back to the goals you had when this year began. Did you want to make more money? Heal a relationship? Bring your family back together? Change careers? Finally break a pattern you’ve been living with for years? Maybe you’ve been working incredibly hard to make it happen. You’ve made the calls. You’ve filled out the paperwork. You’ve read the books. You’ve changed jobs. You’ve made budgets. You’ve hired people. You’ve tried harder. You’ve pushed harder. And maybe you’re looking at October thinking: Why hasn’t this changed yet? There is still time. But maybe the answer isn’t doing more of what you’ve already been doing. We all know the saying: insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. So if you’ve spent this year working on everything out there, maybe these last few months are your invitation to finally work on what’s happening within. Because as within, so without. Your subconscious beliefs matter. Your old wounds matter. Your ancestral patterns matter. The things you’ve learned to expect, tolerate, fear, avoid, chase, or believe you’re worthy of receiving matter. When we begin changing those patterns within, we begin showing up differently in the world. We see choices we couldn’t see before. We respond differently. We create differently. Starting within is the powerhouse move. If financial abundance was one of your goals this year and you’re still wondering why you’re working so hard without creating the financial reality you want, try Shifting to Financial Abundance. Start working with the patterns underneath the numbers. If you’re a family-court parent who has spent another year fighting externally while still longing for restoration with your children, consider the ChainBreaker Program. Give yourself an opportunity to work on the internal, childhood, and ancestral patterns while you continue taking whatever practical steps you need to take in the outside world.

You can only take someone as far as you’ve gone yourself. If you haven’t embodied the lesson, you don’t actually know how to guide someone through it. And giving guidance from theory, ego, or an unhealed wound can be dangerous. That’s why I believe the saying: don’t take advice from someone you wouldn’t want to be in that area of life. Eventually, after enough healing, something shifts. You can recognize a pattern in another person while also seeing where it lives in you — without making it about you. Then healing can happen simultaneously. But thats from learning how to see from your wiser self and not being connected to the story. But first, you have to go there yourself. And it includes healing and self mastery.

This was just a sample of the beginning of a Family Constellation—placing you and the problem in relation to each other and noticing what your body already knows. Do you feel small next to it? Anxious? Angry? Frustrated? Overwhelmed? Stuck? That reaction is information. Then we begin bringing in resources—spiritual protection, ancestors, support, strength—and notice whether anything shifts. Do you feel more grounded, more hopeful, more powerful, or like the problem has a little less control over you? That’s where the deeper work begins. If you felt something just watching this, imagine what we can uncover when we work with your actual system. Book an Ascension Psychology session if you’re ready to look beneath the problem and begin shifting what’s keeping you stuck.

I'd love to get to know you more by you sharing something cool you have experienced that would be considered "supernatural." Haunted houses? Telepathy? Dreams? Synchroncity? Spiritual Healings? Intuitive knowledge? I've had lots of spontaneous healings and intuitions, but I feel called to share a game I used to practice in high school to get us started/ when we were at a party or a big social event. I would try to feel the energy of the person coming behind me to see who they were before I heard a voice or had other information. I got pretty good at it! (Photo is from Pacific Beach in San Diego the other day, the water was unusually beautiful for the area. We dont usually get this gorgeous blue green there).

My goal was to have it done by now. Because vampires are an October thing. But the more I sit and let information emerge - the more I'm downloading information that we aren't supposed to know. So I rushed into ordering all of my materials. And I have a booth reserved for Ascension Psychology at the Dia De Los Muertos fair in Solana Beach. You are invited to stop by and join me if you are in the area. I have more than 200 pages so far- and as I go thru with editing I keep getting more information to add... Here's my big ass signs for book signings. It was supposed to be an adult book with some insights- and well- centuries of evil takes more to talk about than that... 🤷🏻‍♀️