I lost my mom Friday March 27th 2026 at 1:15 and it's already April 3rd. Yesterday so happened to be my sons b day, it seems like time is going by very fast! My heart is broken and honestly I was heading down a slippery slope of depression and having some REALLY dark thoughts but my mom came to me three times since she passed. And since the last time she came to me honestly I've been in a slightly better place. But I wanted to come and touch bases to recalibrate because last I was in here we were discussing Glamour Magick and I want to kinda put that on pause for a second and focus on the matters at hand which are expatriating. Ya girl is relocating out the country and I feel REALLY good about it and there's just so much to share. So I want to take a moment to explain. If you want to get to know me more personally and have access to the more daily lifestyle, behind the scenes and exclusive content you wanna be in Patreon. The Patreon has collections and more! Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SoftGyalEra?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator Exclusive Airbnb stays, resources for remote work etc. And when you join over there or over here you get automatic access to Soft Houzz Elite discord for those who follow me on social media Tik Tok and Epic studios you definitely wanna be in the discord and in our other SKool community: influencer Society where we break down how we monetize social media platforms. So this platform will be for consultations, teaching, dropping game, and resources that will help you to personally develop, make money, grow money, collaborated and network, expatriate and navigate. I'm here to make this a smoother process than I had when I wished someone could've held my hand and helped me through the process the way I needed it. In the mean time I'm taking a little break because mom is gone💔 as much as I'm trying to busy myself and be strong and take heed what she said about not stressing myself out because she's alright and she's in a better place... The human side of me has me emotional. The spiritual side is saying: she's still with you, she's happy And whole on the other side, now she's going to be able to help guide you along. I still miss her here in the flesh. I know there's going to be easier days but there's going to be some real hard days too but I will keep my mom alive. I will do the best I can to serve y'all better because now I'm serving with a higher purpose.

Beauty and abundance are consciousness shifts that begin mentally and internally first.

🍷🍾 Over the next few months in diving deep into Beauty Magick/Glamour Richuals If you are partaking in this journey here's what you'll need: 👉🏽 A dedicated journal for reflection 👉🏽 The desire to do the heartwork assignments and engage within the community and the classroom That's it! What I Will Provide: 👉🏽Guided teachings, rituals, and weekly integrations✨ 👉🏽Melanin Ancestral History of Glamour Magick (below) What Glamour Magick really is Glamour Magick is the intentional shaping of perception — spiritually, energetically, and physically — to reflect your inner power outward. It is not deception. It is amplification. It is ritualized adornment, presence, scent, voice, posture, and aura alignment. Before European occultism labeled it “glamour,” melanated cultures practiced it as sacred presentation. 🌍 The Melanin Lineage 🖤 West African Traditions (Yoruba, Akan, Fon) In traditions connected to what we now call Yoruba religion, adornment was spiritual technology. - Headwraps (gele) = crown protection + spiritual authority - Waist beads = womb power + sensual awareness - Oils & shea butter = body blessing + ancestral sealing Beauty was protection, status, magnetism, and reverence. 🏺 Kemet (Ancient Egypt) In Ancient Egypt, kohl wasn’t just makeup — it protected from the evil eye and solar glare. Oils were consecrated. Perfume was temple work. Adornment signified divine alignment. 🌿 Hoodoo & Rootwork In Hoodoo, glamour lives in: - Condition oils - Floor washes - Honey jars - Psalms over the mirror - Dressing the body before stepping into the world Our grandmothers didn’t call it glamour magick. They called it “fixing yourself up” — spiritually and socially. ✨ What Glamour Magick Is (Energetically) It is: - Intentional self-presentation - Aura cultivation - Nervous system regulation - Scent + oil as spiritual sealant - Embodiment as prayer It is the art of being felt before you are spoken to. 🌸 Benefits When Done Intentionally

Okay y'all let’s make this real simple. I'm sure if you're in the spiritual space and you live on the internet like me, you've heard the term "Mercury Retrograde" 💫 What Mercury Retrograde actually is: Mercury doesn’t start spinning backwards for real. From Earth, it just looks like it’s moving backward in the sky. That optical illusion is what we call “retrograde.” It happens about 3–4 times a year for about 3 weeks. That’s it. No demons. No curse. No apocalypse. 🧠 What Mercury Rules Mercury governs: - Communication - Texting / emails - Contracts - Travel - Technology - The nervous system - Your voice So when it appears to go backward… Those areas feel slower, glitchier, or reflective. 🌬 Soft Explanation Think of Mercury retrograde like this: The universe puts your phone on low power mode. Not broken. Just… conserve. Review. Recalibrate. It’s not a “go start 10 new things” season. It’s a: - Re-read - Re-think - Re-negotiate - Re-organize - Re-visit Season. 💌 Why Exes Text You Mercury rules communication + the past when retrograde. So unfinished conversations resurface. It’s not fate. It’s “Did you close this loop or nah?” 🌿 How to Move Softly During It Instead of being dramatic: - Double-check travel plans - Back up your phone - Don’t rush big contracts - Speak slower - Journal more - Rest your nervous system It’s actually a beautiful time for: - Therapy - Editing - Rebranding - Revising business plans - Healing old communication wounds 🪞The Real Secret Mercury retrograde doesn’t ruin your life. It reveals where you were moving too fast. When you’re grounded, it feels like: A gentle “let’s fix this before you go forward.” Not chaos. Correction. Softly. 🪐Mercury Retrogrades List for 2026🪐 — align communication, nervous system, voice, travel, releases Working with Mercury retrograde for internal reflection and processing (spoken charms, song, breath work, journaling): - Feb 26 – Mar 20 (Pisces) - Jun 29 – Jul 23 (Cancer) - Oct 24 – Nov 13 (Scorpio)