I’ve come away to Spain with my brother for a few days, and if I’m being completely open, the timing couldn’t have been much better. The last few months have probably been some of the most challenging I’ve experienced in business since COVID hit in 2020. Trying to keep three businesses moving forward when times are tough comes with a lot of pressure. There are staff relying on you, customers relying on you, bills that need paying and decisions that constantly need making. Even when you’re at home, it can be difficult to properly switch off because there’s always something going around in your head. I’m definitely not writing this for sympathy. I chose to run businesses and I’m incredibly grateful for what we’ve built. But I also think it’s important to admit when things feel hard, because I know plenty of people in this group will be feeling their own version of that pressure. As parents, there always seems to be someone or something that needs us. Work, the kids, school, clubs, the house, finances, relationships… and somewhere amongst all of that we’re supposed to find the time and energy to look after ourselves as well. Sometimes I think we convince ourselves that the answer is just to keep going. Push through it. Work harder. Get more organised. But sometimes what you actually need is a bit of space from it all. For me, right now, that’s a few days away with my brother. A chance to get out of my normal environment, have a laugh, slow down a little and hopefully come home with a clearer head. Your reset doesn’t need to be a trip to Spain. It could be an afternoon to yourself, getting out for a walk, going to the gym, seeing a mate, having an early night or just saying no to something for once. We spend so much time making sure everyone else is OK that it’s very easy to forget that we need looking after too. Sometimes taking your foot off the pedal for a little while is exactly what you need to be able to put it back down again. I think I needed reminding of that myself. ❤️