When you show your in a vulnerable position you loose your credibility and trust. In today’s society when people see you as not the same person as you once were, everything changes. Now being vulnerable can land on all levels, from the tiniest bit to completely vulnerable. By showing this to people you become the “wounded animal of the pact” and everyone knows what happens then, you get eaten up or left behind. Now those things don’t happen in the “human world” but it’s similar.. Just because your showing vulnerability doesn’t always mean your not stable or don’t know anything, you could be just asking for help. showing vulnerability shouldn’t mean loosing your credibility or trust.,

I need community✊🏻

I’m gonna start posting short videos that are only for this community. They won’t be no more than five minutes because they’re difficult to upload lol. This is a clip from yesterday mornings video. Nothing crazy, just showing appreciation.❤️✊🏻🫡

I got another phone! 😁 My phone was completely maxed out on storage, and it was making it way harder than it should’ve been to post, respond, upload things, and actually interact with everyone here the way I’ve wanted to. The problem is officially gone.😉 I don’t want this community to be somewhere. I just dumped content. I want us actually talking challenging idea ideas sharing what we’re working through and learn from each other✊🏻 We are safe in here.🫡

I have plenty of things I want to talk about—psychology, identity, fatherhood, relationships, addiction and recovery culture, education, rebuilding your life, books, mental health, family court, and the uncomfortable conversations people usually avoid. But I don’t want this community to turn into me talking at everybody. I want to know what you are dealing with. What are you trying to understand? What have you been questioning lately? What topic do you wish people would talk about without giving you some recycled internet answer? 👇 Drop it in the comments. It can be a topic, a question, something you’re struggling with, or even something you completely disagree with me about. Some of those comments are going to become future discussions, posts, videos, and deep dives inside this community. This isn’t supposed to be my community with an audience. It’s supposed to become our community with a conversation. 🔥