Help me lead my own podcast produced by @iheartradio take home $25,000, and be a guest on an episode of On Air with @ryanseacrest @vote.tophost About me, I'm a funny German 🇩🇪 living in LA 🇺🇸, curious and good at asking questions. I'm very likable (hopefully) & love to talk about that "life happens for us"! As a kid I was always talking in school, I could never up. My teachers hated it. School was just so boring and I had so much to share, especially with the girls. My teacher called me "The Stallion" & because I was always surrounded by a bunch of girls. Well, I guess he didn't know that the stallion liked stallions So here I am, using my gift to connect with people and bring some light and laughter to this world. I always say life happens for us not to us. Rephrasing the things in life we experience and see it in a different light. That's what the podcast will be all about, with guest like you and me and the day to day things life throws at us. - The ex who cheated was a blessing, NEXT! - The job you didn't get opened a door for a different job you were waiting for. - The red light you always hit on your way to work, well maybe leave earlier next time so you don't stress about that you'll be late 😎 Click the link to vote for me ☺️🙏🏼 http://tophost.org/2026/frederik-schaaf

- The Velvet Rage (Overcoming the pain of growing in a straight man's world) - Attached (New science of adult attachment and how it can help you find and keep love) - The ethical slut (A practical guide to polyamory, open relationships and other freedoms in sex and love) - Out of the shadows (Reimagining gay men's lives) If you have more book recommendations, please add them in the comments below. Also Dylan mentioned in our today's call that a bookclub would be awesome, what do you guys think, interested?

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