Everybody expects you to have it figured out already. Truth is, three weeks in, you're not supposed to have a plan for your whole life. You're supposed to be standing in the wreckage, feeling every bit of this. That's not you falling behind — that's you right on track. Nobody hands you a manual, and nobody moves through this clean. Feeling this shaken means you're exactly where you need to be. The plan comes later. Right now, just find the first thing to grab.