I decided to re-commit to my business a month ago, after a few years of what I call the entrepreneurial rumspringa. Now, I ask myself just one question everyday: what's the constraint? In the last 3 years I attempted to start 5 different businesses, all while listening to business podcasts, and taking business courses. This period could be summed up as an era of financially paralyzing shiny-object syndrome, since those distractions came at a cost. It's not a coincidence that I have not made any financial progress in the last several years while I've been stretched across multiple areas of interest. Thank goodness that I finally learned that the dabbling has to end if I am going to go far. Also over the last few years, I have had many conversations with entrepreneurs and non entrepreneurs about what leads to success. SO many people believe that success is largely luck, which doesn't sit right with me. There's a saying that "success leaves clues," which means it's gotta be a lot more than just luck, if clues = patterns of behavior. All people have the same 24 hours in a day, so how are some people running billion dollar businesses and others get stuck for years at a time? From what I can tell, the entire formula for success -- whether it's done accidentally or intentionally -- is to remove the constraint of the business every time it gets stuck. This holy-grail concept is simple but not easy. Success requires that one both *recognizes* what is stopping the business growth and *refuses* to work on anything else until that thing is resolved. Most people cannot handle this. I heard someone say that being in business is like sitting in your living room with a trash fire next to you and being fine with it. And it's true! And not only is it true, but it's a skill to learn. Every time I ask my small business owner friends if they know what their constraint is, they list 10 things at a time. I have yet to see someone in that category tell me outright "my constraint is x." I get the impression that small business owners, for the most part, would rather be naive to their constraint than be forced to identify it. Rather than narrow it down to just one bottleneck, they are more comfortable tackling multiple issues at once, even if that stalls their growth. The more I talk to them, the more I see how insanely common it is for this archetype to be ADD at full speed in multiple directions at once. This has helped me recognize it in myself, and I'm determined to put an end to that madness, cause I want that bag more than I want to indulge that ADD, if you know what I'm sayin'. I truly can't stand the idea that I've spent enormous amounts of time on work that could have literally just *not* been done at all, and my financial situation would not have changed a bit.