CommonHer: “My past proves what happens to me in love.” Keptie: “My past gives me information. It does not get to write my future.” Your history can inform your discernment without becoming your expectation. ~ What old love story, belief, or conclusion are you ready to stop using as evidence for what happens next?

Healthy love requires the ability to communicate what is happening inside of you instead of expecting another person to figure it out. ~ When something bothers you, what is your natural tendency: communicate, withdraw, criticize, control, shut down, or pretend you’re fine? No judgment. Just awareness. Then finish this sentence: “A healthier way for me to communicate would be…”

Kepties, on Tuesday, September 29th, I’m hosting CLEAN UP Before Marriage™, a 90-minute LIVE coaching experience designed to help women stop guessing about what they should be working on before marriage and start preparing intentionally. And I want to make sure everyone here understands how access works because, as you know, there are two ways to be inside the Keptie Academy. If you are a paid Academy member, CLEAN UP is included in your membership. You do not need to purchase a separate ticket. Your access information is already in the Academy calendar. If you are here through our free entry level, you are absolutely welcome to attend too! You have two options: — Upgrade to Academy membership, and CLEAN UP is included as one of your membership benefits. — Stay at the free level and purchase CLEAN UP individually for $26. And this won’t just apply to CLEAN UP. Over the next few months, I’m going to be offering more of these live coaching experiences and special public offerings. Paid Academy members will have these experiences included as part of their membership, while ladies at the free entry level can choose which experiences they want to purchase individually. So if you’ve been hanging out with us at the free level and wondering when it might make sense to upgrade, this may be the perfect time. Because membership isn’t only about accessing what’s already inside the Academy. Membership has benefits. 😉 As I create more opportunities throughout the Keptiverse, you’ll start seeing more of what that means. And CLEAN UP is our first one. This isn’t going to be a webinar where I throw a bunch of slides at you while you frantically take notes. 😂 This is a live coaching experience. Come ready to listen. Come ready to reflect. Come ready to notice what comes up for YOU. And leave knowing where your marriage preparation actually needs to begin. CLEAN UP Before Marriage™ Tuesday, September 29th 10:30 AM CST 90 minutes | Live on Zoom I’ve already added everything to the Academy calendar, so check there for your access information.

Think about how you respond when you feel misunderstood. What would a more wife minded, emotionally mature response look like?

This is still a struggle area for me. Although I have grown, my clothing, hair, fragrance, and home do not yet reflect care at the level I desire or envision. I’m learning to slow down and stay in flow instead of pressuring myself to change everything at once. That flow is the fuel I need to care for myself and my environment without becoming overwhelmed.