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WANTED: soul centered high-functioning midlife women ready to build inner authority through Boundaries & Human Design

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A Human Design Question
After discovering my Gate 36, I started following the recurring emotional wave that can sometimes feel quite heavy. Gate 36 referred to as a “The gate of Crisis”. I have been mapping my experiences because I notice that the wave can last for 2–3 days. During these periods, I often feel a strong pull to withdraw and go within. My question is whether these periods can be predicted in advance. Can planetary transits or the positions of the planets indicate when this particular wave is likely to occur? I would be very interested to hear if anyone has experience with this or knows how it can be mapped.💫
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Each wave is different for each type so yours may be a few days. Some people can have weeks or some people just need to sleep on it. It depends on your wave. The Gate 36 rests your emotional authority then that is the channel of transitoriness - The Abstract Wave (the channel): it operates through desire and feeling and it moves from peaks to valleys. Based on your expectation, this wave crashes when the desire or expectation is not met. The trick to transcending this wave is to enter into something just for the experience without placing any expectations on the outcome. This can be challenging depending on your type. You may experience repeated spikes and crashes that can be challenging to handle and may become personally destabilizing over time if you're not aware of the mechanics of your emotional wave. What makes it really interesting is that it's an inescapable chemical process that keeps the wave constantly in motion. No explanations accompany the shifts and swings. It's truly awareness that makes the difference so it's great that you're journaling when you're in your highs and lows. Those are great times as you're moving towards clarity. Depending on other aspects of your design (it's a system that works together) those would be helpful factors to introduce to this. Now, I am not well versed in transits. When they are activated I believe it does impact things. You can map planetary transits in advance. What we can’t reliably predict from them is exactly when you’ll feel an emotional low or how long it will last. If you’d like to explore the transit connection, keep recording your experience daily, including the lighter and more neutral days. Note your mood, sleep, stress, significant experiences, and what helps you feel supported. Then compare those notes with the transits afterward. That gives you room to notice patterns without going into a particular day expecting a crisis. I’d approach that comparison as a practice in curiosity. Human Design transit interpretations aren’t a scientifically validated way to forecast your emotional state.🥰
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@Ronda Del Boccio thank you for giving me the space to do so. I appreciate you.
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1 like • Sep 5
I would love to, however, I am going to be driving in my car.
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2 likes • Aug 12
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Fall Podcast, Summit and Bundle etc. Opportunities
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Fall Podcast, Summit and Bundle etc. Opportunities
1 like • Aug 8
@Ronda Del Boccio Thank you so much. I appreciate this. I joined over there. Big hugs.
1 like • Aug 9
@Ronda Del Boccio Yeah, I had no idea. Thank you!!!
💛 Self-Love Prompt: What Do I Need Less Of In Life?
We talk a lot about what to add — more self-care, more boundaries, more joy. But sometimes the more powerful question isn't what you need more of. It's what you need to let go of. Self-love isn't only about filling your cup. Sometimes it's about noticing what's been quietly draining it. So today, sit with this: What do I need less of in life? It might be something obvious — a habit, a commitment, a relationship that's stopped feeling good. Or it might be something quieter: less self-criticism, less comparison, less saying yes when you mean no. Less noise. Less pressure to have it all figured out. This isn't about a dramatic overhaul. It's about honesty. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for yourself isn't adding another practice to your routine — it's finally admitting that something isn't serving you anymore, and giving yourself permission to release it. Let's make this easy, lovelies 💛 Drop the emoji that matches what you're ready to have less of this week — no explanation needed unless you want to share: 😤 Stress / overwhelm 🙅‍♀️ Saying yes when I mean no 🪞 Self-criticism 📱 Noise / comparison / scrolling 💭 Pressure to have it all figured out
1 like • Jul 9
@Angela Caccioppo hee hee less of that for sure
1 like • Jul 9
@Ronda Del Boccio LOL I'm so glad you enjoyed it.
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