- mm start with that... this is Tom, i know where you live...do you want to buy insurance? - Message from Tj Shepherd, discovery what they want/willing to accept... disqual - for us to have a understanding of what could cause this sale to fall through and find out early if that is likely or not. ^my mental model - Message from Tj Shepherd, if we don't have what they want or will accept that is a disqaul too Today at 9:39 AM - Message from Rich Ryan, Just curious what you folks sell. I'm hearing a lot of financial services. Rich Ryan Today at 10:21 AM - Message from Tj Shepherd, the why they want it is what i really want to know - the yes to a want is just a reason to ask. - Message from Tj Shepherd, "increase the probabilty" if you think abuot what that implies has a opportunity to refraem it nuetrally to yourself there, i think - Message from Tj Shepherd, afraid to mess up the sale because the underlying belief is what you say is what makes them buy or not