我老公愛的語言是文字，在一起五年後我才慢慢發現。吵架說的話他會打破沙鍋問到底，同樣的，平常沒事他會 shower me in compliments 不斷誇獎讚美，情書也都是他寫的。我一直以爲他只是浪漫，後來發現是他的呈現方式跟我不一樣，我的語言是食物 😂 （Ok but seriously, it's quality time but food is just as important for me.） What is your love language? ⬇️ 🔥 7 out of 9 installments, let's look at 感情： ❝ Did you know that people can have different love languages? It’s an idea from the 90s that’s still widely accepted. It explains that ppl express affection in 5 ways. Today I’m just gonna focus one 1 - words of affirmation. People whose love language is words tend to say things like thanks for doing this for me, I really appreciate what you did there, you look nice today, I know you can do it. They talk, send texts or cards. They are encouraging. And in return, they LOVE receiving words of affirmation, too. Conversely, insults can hit them very hard. So you may wanna be careful with semantics.❞ 關鍵字 - affection 情緒、愛意（放閃就是 PDA，全名 public display of affection） - (words of) affirmation 肯定（話語） - encouraging adj. 鼓舞人心的 - hit someone hard 打擊、衝擊 - semantics 語意、字裡行間的意義（進階字） 補充：五種語言 1. words of affirmation 肯定語言 2. physical touch 身體接觸 3. gifts 真心禮物 4. quality time 一對一精心時刻 5. acts of service 行動與服務 What is your love language? ⬇️ vote below 📌 想學習更多三觀英文嗎？ 在《感情抓馬》課程中的第一集我們可以討論更多。它是付費課程，確保最高品質的對話時間留給Premium Members 👑 現在升級會員，解鎖「所有課程」 Premium Member 擁有所有課程的權限，包含直播、回播、電字書和新課程《A.R.T.S 打造英文自我》，直到取消訂閱為止。

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好像有不同種詮釋。對你來說哪種才是及時行樂？下方投票 🗳️ 我最喜歡的態度可以用這句話來描述：I will cross the bridge when we get there. 大多翻譯為「船到橋頭自然直」，擁抱事情的不確定性，擺脫遠優。在 MBTI 的十六種性格測驗，這種人應屬Ｐ- 感知型人格，喜歡彈性，重視體驗。Even though I am actually a Judger （判斷型人格）。 🔥 5 out of 9 installments, let's look at 及時行樂： ❝ Not the kind that’s so radical and unrelatable - but the kind that’s more like “living in the moment”. People who live in the moment make the most out of presence. They work hard and play hard, drawing a line between work and life. They’re mindful of what’s happening around them, letting go of the past and the future. When it comes to challenges, they say “I'll cross the bridge when I get there.”❞ 關鍵字 - radical 極端（主義）的 - unrelatable 無法引起共鳴的、很難懂的 - presence 當下（注意拼法，此為名詞） - Work hard, play hard. 努力工作也努力行樂 - mindful 正念的、細心注意的（正念 ≠ 正向喔） - let go of 放手 📌 想學習更多三觀英文嗎？ 在《感情抓馬》課程中的第一集我們可以討論更多。它是付費課程，確保最高品質的對話時間留給Premium Members 👑 現在升級會員，解鎖「所有課程」 Premium Member 擁有所有課程的權限，包含直播、回播、電字書和新課程《A.R.T.S 打造英文自我》，直到取消訂閱為止。

你有宗教信仰嗎？下方投票 🗳️ 跟先生剛開始在一起，我說他的曲棍球球具怎麼如此臭，他說沒事不會洗...不然會把運氣洗掉 😂 所以球具他都放陽台！迷信是很有趣的一個話題，不僅是宗教印象，更是靈性和個人選擇。過去幾年課程很多相關的延伸話題，例如民間傳說、中古世紀女巫、台灣信仰、邪教等。It is a way our human brains try to make sense of the world because of our fear. 🔥 6 out of 9 installments, let's look at 迷信： ❝ 迷信是一種「恐懼/權能」的世界觀. What does it mean? It’s people who believe in unseen forces. They believe that things in the universe are connected with ideas from their religions or belief systems. To them, unrelated things can have patterns. Superstitious people can get paranoid about luck, omens or signs. I’m gonna spitball a few examples. In the US, number 13 is bad luck while it’s the number 4 that does it in TW. They knock on wood when they don’t want to jinx something. Hockey goalies believe that if they win a game wearing this pair of socks, they WILL NOT wash them. Don’t ask me how I found out. Seeing a Cardinal means that a departed loved one has come to see you. See, on the flip side of the coin, superstition is also spirituality. Are you a superstitious person?❞ 關鍵字 - superstition (n) ; superstitious (adj) 迷信（的） - unseen forces 看不見的力量 - universe 宇宙 - belief system 信仰系統 - unrelated 不相關的 - pattern 規率、模型、格式 - paranoid 自己疑神疑鬼的（跟 suspicious 『有疑的』有差別） - omen 徵兆 - jinx 觸霉頭、招厄運* - Cardinal 此指北美紅雀 - departed loved one 以去世的親人 - spirituality 靈性 補充 *口語的 Don't jinx it 就像是「不要亂說話」；You jinxed it. 就是「就是你說錯話才會這樣」 📌 想學習更多三觀英文嗎？ 在《感情抓馬》課程中的第一集我們可以討論更多。它是付費課程，確保最高品質的對話時間留給Premium Members 👑 現在升級會員，解鎖「所有課程」 Premium Member 擁有所有課程的權限，包含直播、回播、電字書和新課程《A.R.T.S 打造英文自我》，直到取消訂閱為止。 Are you a religious person? Vote below.

Went to Hualien last weekend with my girl friends. Discovered this incredible view. The moon actually turns RED! That’s 2 days after fall moon. Teacher Bannai saw my story and share the third picture with me😍. I’m so curious and ask my astrology teacher how does it happen. The answer is: 當月亮接近地平線，光線會穿越更厚的大氣層，其他顏色的光線都被折射掉了，只剩折射率最低的紅光可以被看見。這也是為什麼夕陽愈接近地平線就會愈紅 Share to you all🔥