我老公愛的語言是文字,在一起五年後我才慢慢發現。吵架說的話他會打破沙鍋問到底,同樣的,平常沒事他會 shower me in compliments 不斷誇獎讚美,情書也都是他寫的。我一直以爲他只是浪漫,後來發現是他的呈現方式跟我不一樣,我的語言是食物 😂 (Ok but seriously, it's quality time but food is just as important for me.)
What is your love language? ⬇️
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❝ Did you know that people can have different love languages? It’s an idea from the 90s that’s still widely accepted. It explains that ppl express affection in 5 ways. Today I’m just gonna focus one 1 - words of affirmation. People whose love language is words tend to say things like thanks for doing this for me, I really appreciate what you did there, you look nice today, I know you can do it. They talk, send texts or cards. They are encouraging. And in return, they LOVE receiving words of affirmation, too. Conversely, insults can hit them very hard. So you may wanna be careful with semantics.❞
關鍵字
- affection 情緒、愛意(放閃就是 PDA,全名 public display of affection)
- (words of) affirmation 肯定(話語)
- encouraging adj. 鼓舞人心的
- hit someone hard 打擊、衝擊
- semantics 語意、字裡行間的意義(進階字)
補充:五種語言
- words of affirmation 肯定語言
- physical touch 身體接觸
- gifts 真心禮物
- quality time 一對一精心時刻
- acts of service 行動與服務
What is your love language? ⬇️ vote below
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