“Your life has a design, but understanding that design takes time.” — Renee Howard Along the way, you’ll have many purposes—things you’re called to learn, build, nurture, survive, and become. Faith is foundational because it keeps you grounded while everything else is still taking shape. Sometimes the systems that help you survive can also become places you grow comfortable depending on. The goal is to receive the help you need without losing sight of the life you’re still responsible for building. Eventually, you begin to recognize the traps, not simply as failures, but as lessons. And with every lesson, you understand your design a little more. The more you learn who you are, what you value, what you’re capable of, and what God has placed inside you, the more intentionally you can move from survival to independence,and build a life that gives you a reason to keep getting up and becoming. 💜

What's the right age to give your child a phone? I know most of are American parents, but I'm an African parent. I give my daughter a phone last year on her 13th birthday, but an incident happened that is trending on social media that made me question myself if I did the right thing. I control her phone and she doesn't use it during school days since she's in boarding. A15 years old boy groomed a younger girl of 8years into having phone s..e..x. This happened through Snapchat. He told the little girl that if she didn't do what he said, he would go to their house as ghost and hurt her and her mom. The girl tried to tell him that God will punish her for doing such act, but this boy kept on convincing her that it was okay. She is young, but she knows God. Somehow, she agreed to do what he told her and she even sent him photos and he also send her his nudes. I feel sick just writing this. How often do you check your child's phone? Have you taught them about grooming, manipulation, inappropriate messages, strangers online, sexual exploitation, and what to do when someone makes them uncomfortable. And most importantly, we need to teach them that, “If anyone asks you for a sexual picture, threatens you, scares you, or tells you to keep a secret from your parents, come to me immediately. You will not be punished for telling me.” That's how her innocence has been exposed to world, with the incident spreading across media. What a nightmare for the parents! Though I restricted certain apps from daughter's phone, but I'm still terrified when such incidents happen.

Your past may explain some chapters, but it doesn’t get to decide how your story ends. 🤍 The enemy may have tried to use heartbreak, disappointment, mistakes, trauma, or detours to convince you that your story was already written—but he never had the pen. God is still restoring. You’re still healing. And there are still pages left to write. 🙌🏾 “You can rewrite your story. The Devil doesn’t have the pen.” — Kittie Rose Turn the page. This chapter can look different. ❤️‍🔥

Don't allow your heart to revisit what you have physically left. ~ Daneja Monique Whether they miss you or not, YOU STILL HAVE TO HEAL If they apologized or not, YOU STILL HAVE TO HEAL Whether or not you received closure, YOU STILL HAVE TO HEAL You may have wondered If they choose someone else or not, YOU STILL HAVE TO HEAL You may or may not have kids with the person, YOU STILL HAVE TO HEAL Don't focus on what your mind has been wondering, what you may be romanticizing, or what you might even want answers to. The best thing to do is to focus on doing the HEART work and using your pain as fuel that guides you to your purpose. Happy Saturday

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